Refuge - 01494 461367
Outreach - 01494 449922
IDVA - 01494 449922


Wycombe Women’s Aid offers emergency, temporary and safe accommodation for women on their own and women with children who are escaping domestic violence.

“So many things have changed. I feel so much more confident now and I have got my trust back. Before, I didn’t know who to trust or who to turn to and I ended up not trusting anybody. I felt like all of the professionals I was working with were against me, but when I came here I felt like there were people on my side and helping to fight for me. I didn’t have the support of my family and I felt very lost and lonely. Coming here has been like having a second family and I know that I can always phone up if I need anything”

What is a refuge?

A refuge is:

  • A confidential safe house where women and children can go if they are escaping domestic violence
  • A safe place where there are employees available to support women in deciding what they want to do next

Refuge shared kitchen

How we support women living in the refuge

Women will be assigned a Support Worker who will listen to the woman’s experiences, talk with her and support her in improving things.  Children will be assigned a Child Development Worker or a Youth Worker depending on their age.

Wycombe Women’s Aid Workers will not tell women what decisions to make or what to do with their life.  Living in the refuge is about choices and workers will support women and work with them to help them feel in control of their own life and own decisions.

Some of the things workers can inform women about include:

  • Sorting out housing after the refuge – whether this means returning home or finding a new home
  • Sorting out benefits – ensuring women are claiming all the benefits they are entitled to and making the most of their money
  • Legal protection – making sure women are safe and going to the court to get further legal protection if needed
  • Issues to do with the abuser – there may be a range of issues women would like support on
At Wycombe Women’s Aid, women have the sole use of a furnished bedroom plus the shared use of the communal facilities, including:

  • Lounge
  • Dining room
  • Bathroom
  • Kitchen

All bed linen and kitchen equipment is provided and there are washing machines in each house for women to use.

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Referrals will be accepted from individuals and statutory or voluntary agencies.  Wycombe Women’s Aid will always speak with a woman directly to confirm her request for refuge space.

For agency referrals, a copy of our referral form can be found here:

Refuge Referral Form

For women in the local community seeking refuge space at WWA, a thorough risk assessment will be undertaken because of the heightened safety and security issues, not only for the woman seeking refuge but also the guests and employees at WWA refuge. Once a thorough risk assessment has taken place, a decision is made as to whether or not it is appropriate to offer the woman a space.  If it is not appropriate, WWA can support local women in securing refuge space away from the Buckinghamshire area.

For more information about the refuge or to make a referral please contact the Refuge Helpline on 01494 461367.

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Bucks Domestic Abuse Service provides a helpline for individuals and agencies.  The helpline can offer:

  • Emotional and/or practical support
  • Information about legal, housing, welfare and financial issues relating to domestic violence
  • Support to local women seeking refuge away from Buckinghamshire
  • Information about making a referral to either Wycombe Women’s Aid refuge or Aylesbury Women’s Aid refuge

The Helpline operates 24 hours a day 7 days a week.  

Please contact the Helpline on 01296 437777. 

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“The Workers at Wycombe Women’s Aid saved my life.  I feel I have choices now about how it will be for me and my children in the future.  I would like to thank everyone for the support I have been given.  My life has turned around and I am so grateful to everyone”

“The support I received was so good. I was supported by everybody and could talk to everybody. The support my son received from the Child Workers was fantastic – he has changed so much and has made so much progress. I feel much stronger now. Thank you”

“You’ve changed my life and my children’s lives.  I know now that I am not responsible for what happened to me and the children.  We are so much happier now and I am so grateful to all of you for being there when we needed you”

 “We would like to thank you all for all the support and help.  We really appreciate everything you have done for us.  We will always remember your kind hearts”

Wycombe Women's Aid P.O. Box 1477 High Wycombe Bucks HP11 9HP Registered Charity No. 299946 Registered Company No. 2245478 ©2016 Wycombe Women's Aid

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